Blog 2017-09-28T15:27:25+00:00

…since the beginning. Time to open my mouth and start contributing…here we go…

January 12th, 2018|Categories: Personal Growth|

Where Am I, Where are We?

“How are you taking care of you?” The question was posed as if I should actually know what the hell he was talking about . . . “what do you mean?”  “I mean, how are you going to get your needs met without her?  You are responsible for getting your needs met . . .” It was one of my early counseling sessions.  I had begun attending as a result of a marriage that was disintegrating.  My divorce came like the proverbial thief in the night; a silent, unexpected, incomprehensible villain wielding […]

January 11th, 2018|Categories: Personal Growth, Sacred Journey|


“. . . and so . . . it is time for me to shed the guilt and shame of my youth, shed the expectations of my fathers and mothers, and embrace who I truly am.

There are many ‘aha’ moments in life, some arriving with stunning quickness, like a sudden, thunder-clapping lightning strike amidst a mid-afternoon downpour on a long walk.  An electric event that purges your entire body of earthly grit, refreshing it with a scintillating, surreal pulse of life and breath . . . as if the skies beckoned the earth to shake […]

September 28th, 2017|Categories: Personal Growth|


“. . . but right now, the inertia of my life is leading me down this path . . .

And then . . . there are times, when we reside in the place between the desert and the oasis. . . a ‘no-place’ of interminable stasis.  A vast, featureless landscape where, while the air is no longer acrid and laden with sulfur, is not yet full of the cool, refreshing, life-giving well water we seek.  It is a barren landscape of gray, dread and unseen, a foreboding neutral, time eclipsing all anger and agitation, a […]

September 28th, 2017|Categories: Personal Growth|


“And I know that this will bring discomfort, confusion, pain and unsettled feelings to those I love . . .”

There is a time . . . when the world is overcome by blackness, an emptiness that shakes the foundation of all life and shatters the quickening core.  A darkness unparalleled in the physical world.  It enters upon a death-knell of selfish arrogance and kills all beauty and wonder.  It’s depth, a famine of the soul that grips you . . . emptying your essence into a swirling void of fear and pain.  A vile filth-pit, stealing […]

September 27th, 2017|Categories: Personal Growth|